My boyfriend is a slob. His house is something that would easily make a 1 hour Hoarders special. So in the the 2 years we've been together, I can count on two hands how many times I've been to his house. When I do go, I bring bleach, pine-sol, and my own food. I am repulsed by him and his uncleanliness. He claims his brother is the culprit but my boyfriend's room tells another story. It's marred with dirty clothes on the floor and "occasional" dirty dishes.
But anyway, I don't live in the safest neighborhood (remember I was burglarize); however, my apartment is far from being in the "projects". I don't have the newest items in here but I try to keep it clean, especially with a dog. My boyfriend comes over and he is just as bad as her. He leaves whatever he uses (dishes, clothes, bottles,etc.) everywhere. I am really repulsed by him. The final straw is he "shit" in my toilet and did not flush. It happened before and he apologized. But this time, when I sent him a picture of the shit in question, he tried to justify it. There is no justification for nor flushing your own bodily fuctions. Sorry!
I work 8 hours starting 6 am (five days out of the week). I cook when I get home or when we come from the gym. He always has food to eat. And a clean place to sit. I don't remember the last time he said a simple thank you. I'm tired of being taken for granted.
What do you do to make a person know that their actions are upsetting you. I don't want to be a nag. But he is about to be cut-off.
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